Saturday, February 5, 2011

10 Steps out of Homelessness

You could easily use this list of 10 steps to solve lots of life's problems, not just being homeless.

1. You are special.
2. Overcome barriers
3. Be realistic.
4. Take Responsibility.
5. Pay your debts.
6. Value relationship.
7. Don't do it alone.
8. Always have hope.
9. Personal renewal.
10. A lifelong journey.

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Megachurch Troubles

Jerry Johnston's church, First Family Church, is being foreclosed on. Links for your reading pleasure:
http://www.kansascity.com/2011/01/31/2623702/mega-church-in-overland-park-faced.html Good information and lots of snarky comments from atheists in the comment section.

and copied from their website, their reply to the situation (they declined to talk to the Kansas City Star.

As the Board of Elders informed FFC membership in March 2010, Regions Bank unexpectedly called the church's mortgage demanding full payment within 30 days; terms which were financially impossible for the Church to comply with. Regretfully, since that time despite our sincere and on-going efforts to work with Regions in finding a long term solution which insured our full repayment of all debt owed, on January 26, 2011, Regions filed a foreclosure notice against First Family Church in Johnson County, KS. Since its occurrence, your church leadership, pastors, elders, deacons, and ministry leaders have been praying and in a spirit of unity. We are confident to resolve this situation while all ministries and worship services continue as scheduled on our campus. This is happening to churches across the country according to the Wall Street Journal, 1/24/11 - another reality of our country's economic crisis.

  • FFC remains proactive with the lender in working out a successful financial debt restructuring that will bridge the challenges of the current situation.

  • The bank filing was something the Church was expecting, as it is standard Administrative Process required of lenders while working to restructure the debt.

  • FFC has demonstrated by internal financial management that it has the capacity to enter into a restructuring with Regions that will repay this debt in full. We are confident that a resolution will be accomplished.
  • This development toward First Family Church by Regions is consistent with the Bank's actions since they accelerated the mortgage maturity from 30 years to 5 years recently forcing this situation even whileFirst Family Church was current in its obligations. We recognize banks today are under immense pressure by federal regulators. These are uncertain economic times.

  • While FFC continues negotiations with Regions Bank, the mission, ministries, worship services, and Conquest Initiatives will continue without interruption on our campus. We will resolve this matter to the satisfaction of the bank and First Family Church.

  • Please continue to pray and rest assured your Elder Board is working diligently to resolve this matter. Church members are encouraged to contact the Elders and Chief Financial Officer of First Family Church at the church office with any questions.

  • We look forward to seeing you on Sundays @ 9:00 & 10:45a.m. for regular worship services as well as on Wednesdays @ 6:30p.m. at the new "Christian Thinkers Society" in our worship campus facility. Thank you so very much for your continued prayers.
Now, they've had troubles before with money. This is not the first time the local paper has gotten after them. There is a lot here that I don't understand and also a lot here that demonstrates that Christian churches have to be very transparent with the money. (Being smart with it is good too, but sometimes I think transparency and integrity are more important than saving or making money smartly.)

Christians are not perfect and they will make mistakes. However, you cannot set yourself up for a fall in this type of fashion. Two more things and I'm done.

The previous problems Jerry Johnston had with money accountability: http://www.kansascity.com/2007/07/22/720120/johnstons-former-ministry-faulted.html

A fine couple of comments from the Star article.
It is unfortunate that some very good people that are on staff at First Family could possibly lose their jobs. I don't wish that on anyone in this economy. I am a member of this church and have from the beginning wished that finances weren't so secretive and that there was more oversight from the members. I think that Jerry Johnston is an excellent preacher when it comes to sermons and is well-versed in the Bible; though he is severely lacking in people skills and knowing how to keep the members the church does have. I have had much support from one minister (not Jerry) when I needed it most and I am grateful for his love, support, prayers, and concern. Jerry Johnston could take some lessons from some of his other ministers on how to be a pastor to the membership. The initiation of quarterly business meetings with an actual vote from the membership on expenditures would be a good start for this church. I have attended Baptist churches my entire life and all finances were published right down to how much the pastor made, including his housing allowance. Also, the Board of Deacons were the main control on finances for the church along with voting approval from the members. Projects seem to get announced in this church as the next "big" thing and then months go by and nothing happens. Then something new is given the hype and the previous "big" thing is never discussed. I hope the church can get it's finances in order because we need to worship and praise God, and now more than ever we need to rely on God in these terrible times. Praise the Lord, keep the faith, and God bless our Military!!!

and this in reply by another reader:

You described Jerry's slight of hand perfectly. He always has his congregation excited about something that is coming up. When he brings up the next exciting event, people forget that the last one didn't happen.

The lack of financial accountability at FFC was brought front and center in March 2007. It's too bad a lesson wasn't learned. I believe the doors would have stopped revolving and the church would be healthy spiritually and financially if Jerry was forthright and honest with the congregation. But, Jerry is not going to do that. Anyone thinking members of the congregation should have a say in financial matters will hear from Jerry that their vote is whether their feet walk in the doors of FFC or not

The message? A double edged one:
God's followers must be gentle, yet wise. They must be transparent. They must avoid being fake. They must accept accountability. They should err on the side of thinking small in the stuff of the world. (I've asked myself sometimes, even in the 125 member churches I've been a part of if the church building is such a good idea...)
The second thing: The only thing that is completely perfect in Christian faith is God Himself. His followers? Not so much. And those who are arguing with God and are running from Him will use God's followers imperfections as reasons to reject faith. It happens. Remember who actually convicts and saves. We are witnesses and ambassadors, not the ones who bring the power of God for forgiveness and love.

In the meantime, we--still!--need to live remembering that our witness may be the only "Bible" nonbelievers read!

Monday, January 31, 2011

A Heretic?

Is there such a thing as a "Christian universalist"? I just read a blog of someone who considers themselves that.

My first reaction, the gut one, the one I hesitated to think or say out loud: "You, my dear blogger, are a heretic."

God does want to save as many as possible. But He will not paint over disrespect or indifference. Not everyone will be saved, if not for the simple reason that not everyone asked to be saved or wants to be saved.

I would flee a church that did not preach that belief in Christ was essential to salvation both in this life (the infilling of the Holy Spirit, etc) and the next life (eternity with God).

2011 Resolution

From the sermon series just completed at church. They passed out window stickers with these words for your consideration.

In 2011, I will..
slow down
choose carefully
trust God
simplify my life

So that I might...
see clearly
listen carefully
think deeply
enjoy life fully
serve God effectively

It is going to snow, snow, snow tomorrow! I am ready. As long as the electricity stays on...

Saturday, January 22, 2011

Still Stinks

I hate this about myself that I feel so crappy going home from church by myself every week.

It just hurts a little every time, like a little disappointment each time.

Then I pound myself. You don't do enough. You don't invite. You don't practice hospitality. You are too afraid of being rejected.

You are too self centered. God should be enough for you. You should look outward.

You are socially stupid. You can't read signs. You are too sensitive.

Blah. Blah. Blah.

I STILL HATE IT MOST OF THE TIME.

I'd like to develop a system, not among strangers, but among a group of friends. One person or couple in a group of friends stops their self centered "Population: 1" lifestyle for one Sunday every month or couple weeks or however many brave people would sign up for such a thing. That designated person either opens up their home, or provided the focal point for a restaurant trip after service. No one has to come, but the door is always open. Now the person should not feel like they have to do something special at home unless they want to. In other words, they can put the word out, "Come fellowship with us, but bring your own grub." No hospitality pressure that everything has to be perfect. Planned spontaneousness is the idea.

It just annoys me that a group of people who come together to worship the living God can't make time for each other after the service, that there are people who go home lonely each and every Sunday. There has to be something that can be done about that.

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Next Christian Festival

Ash Wednesday March 9th

Palm Sunday April 17th

Easter April 24th

and oh, yeah, not to be a kill joy but taxes are due April 18th.

Pulled

MGE came and pulled the gas meter sometime yesterday, I think.

This shouldn't bother me, as I haven't had gas service for some time--almost two years--and all my gas appliances are crap. At least two of them will need to be replaced, and probably all three before the gas can be turned back on.

My hot water heater is shot and doesn't work.

My stove leaks gas--I noticed a decrease in headaches and weird feelings as soon as the gas was shut off that spring.

My furnace is a piece of crap. It does run, but is over 20 years old and doesn't ignite properly or correlate with the thermostat so it is ridiculously inefficient and doesn't get the house warm while burning prodigious and expensive amounts of gas.

That's why there is a bill that will have to be paid too, which is probably why they fetched the meter.

Even with all that, it bothers me that the meter was pulled. It makes the house look abandoned. I'll have to be sure to keep working on my clean ups, to keep codes from sniffing around.

There's a lot of broke stuff around here--including my wallet!